I don’t think that there is any denying it, Moses may have been specifically referring to the Jewish people, but I believe the term “stiff-necked” can be applied to humanity in general. We do not seem to learn from our history, or even the life lessons we experience, we must fail over and over – this is, I believe, just one of the many faults that come from the fall, and we continue to struggle with this. Our Lord has indeed demonstrated His love, patience, kindness, and indeed fidelity – even going so far as to offer His only Son as our replacement for the condemnation and punishment we deserve. His love for us is truly without limits.
His ask of us in return for such great love and faithfulness is that we love Him, and one another, as we are all created in His image. Yet even in this, we fail so frequently and repeatedly. Our inclination is to show our kindness and love to only who we know and understand, outside of that, we gravitate toward suspicion, hatred, and even cruelty. Those that we haven’t yet become familiar with are treated firstly with suspicion and reserve, rather than attempts at understanding and compassion. We justify these initial actions by telling ourselves that through experience we have learned it is better to be guarded until we know others a bit better, and to a point this is true, but we must not let this hinder what we are called by God to do. He knows all of His creations and knows that sometimes our trust will be unfavorably repaid, yet we are still called to extend the offer of love, just as He did. If our Lord accepted the risk and was indeed initially poorly repaid for His overture, why would we not be called to follow His example in this? His call tells us to greet one another with a Holy Kiss, and with agreeable spirit. That is not to say we are called to agree with all that others do, it means that we are called to act agreeably, including providing correction in what we know to be true through God’s word, and to introduce others who are not familiar with it to the Gospel message. This introduction comes from our actions and words, and from our commitment to His message of love and peace to all of humanity, even (and perhaps especially) when it is not so easy to see the good that is there in those to whom we are trying to spread this word to. We must try to ignore our own vision, which shows only the external, and instead attempt to look with God’s eyes at all we meet. To stop before we simply write someone off with our usual classifications that we box others into, and to ask ourselves what it perhaps took to get that person to the place they are currently in and whether we might react much differently in such circumstances. This is still a limited effort, because only God can truly know the mind and heart of others, and what shaped them, but we can at least strive for some understanding, and we can pray for the grace of discernment through the Holy Spirit to help us to navigate these encounters. There is no one else to do this, we alone as followers of Christ are in the unique position to offer His message of hope, compassion, and salvation. We alone are called to this, it is our responsibility. If we are to one day enter through the narrow gate, we must first open our own gate wide to others through trust, love, and compassion, no matter how we are then responded to, because this does not really matter – we cannot expect rewards from others for those efforts. If we do, then we lose out on the true reward that can only come from God himself when He calls us to Him and looks at our lives, and the difference we made to His other children – whether it was good, bad, or none at all. This is what we will be judged on.